Guiding you to a flourishing, purposeful & deeply connected life

  • Discover

    Are you unable to discern your calling for your life or what’s your next step? I will lead you to discover your true life's purpose and give you the tools to achieve the goals, needs, and desires that are part of your calling. Journey into self-discovery to see real results and impactful change. Walk into a meaningful life you’ve been dreaming of.

  • Flourish

    Are you struggling with being present, feeling burnout or finding joy? It's more common than you think. I have techniques to help you thrive and grow the life you dream of. It's time to live more holistically and purposefully to experience a present and joy-filled life now. You can thrive, not just survive as you live a life you want.

  • Connect

    Are your self-limiting beliefs keeping you from connecting with people or excelling at your job? I will work with you to process self-doubt and give you the tools to better connect with others and open yourself up to intimacy with people in ways you've never experienced. It's time to live a connected, purposeful, and more integrated life.

Intensive Debrief

Debriefing is a guided experience lasting 2 to 5 days, designed for those navigating transition, grief, crisis, or injustice at various levels. Through this process, you’ll gain perspective on your circumstances, experience healing, forgiveness, and freedom, and take steps toward resilience. By the end of the sessions, you’ll leave renewed and equipped to move forward with clarity and strength.

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Hilary Horn is a certified coach that has helped hundreds live a deeply authentic, connected, and flourishing life. Focusing on debrief weeks, individual coaching, workshops and sabbatical coaching. She helps see people walk in healing and health.

Hi, I’m Hilary.

I have served as a professional coach, designer, missionary, church planter, and pastor in a variety of roles. But, my passion is to serve ministry leaders, mothers, young professionals and working parents through debrief and coaching opportunities to empower them in their wellness and spiritual journey. I have traveled and worked in over 30 different countries around the world; working with individuals in social injustice. My desire is to see all people heal and move into more thriving lives who have experienced any level of trauma.

I help my clients grow in their wellness, walk them through healing, and provide the tools to completely transform their lives as they work towards holistic health. I specialize in 3-5 day intensive debriefs for those in a season of significant transition or change, have experienced a crisis or want to unpack an event or season of their life.

I spent over a decade in nonprofit leadership and cross cultural work, advocating for healthy leaders who want to use their life to impact the world - for the long run.

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Debriefing is a guided 5 day rest where many people come having gone through a lot of transition, grief, crisis, and injustice at varying levels. Best for ministry leaders, missionaries, nurses, christian debrief, pastors, trauma experience. Seattle

Coaching for Women Leaders

Overcoming things like vocational obstacles, primal wounding, trauma, and entering into what God has created you to be starts with creating a safe space where individuals feel heard and supported while identifying the root cause of issues. Together we will create practical strategies to help build confidence, resilience and growth. Learn to face challenges with courage, clarity and self-compassion.

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Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling is a vital step for couples preparing to build a lifelong partnership. It offers a structured environment to explore foundational aspects of a relationship, such as communication, conflict resolution, finances, and shared values. By addressing potential challenges before they arise, couples gain tools to navigate them effectively. Premarital counseling provides a safe space to discuss sensitive topics that may otherwise be overlooked, helping to mitigate misunderstandings later.

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What People Are Saying

  • TM, Working Mom

    Every time I've walked away from a session, I've gained new skills and tried things I hadn't before, boosting my confidence significantly. My life has held a lot stress, this experience has made me more aware of maintaining a sense of calm during this season. I appreciate Hilary who has also celebrated with me intentionally.

  • Sarah, Missionary

    “Missions takes a toll. I was burned out and trying to stay afloat in my family life. Coaching with Hilary really helped me process more ways to have self care, meet goals and find a healthier and balanced life. She also helped process some traumas from this past year that kept me stuck. Honestly, I think it saved my marriage and ministry!

  • Lainey S.

    Hilary is great. I highly recommend working with her. She is sharp and a great listener. I am grateful for the resources she has led me too. She has a natural gift for coaching.

  • AS, School Counselor

    When I first started I had no clue what I was getting into. I was anxious and you were so patient with my heart and my story. I have always felt safe and secure and most importantly, seen. You challenged ways of thinking and deep sorrow in such powerful ways. Even more, you did it with gentleness. Thank you so much for everything you have done and I will never take it for granted!

  • Mikalai, CFO

    “Hilary has been my coach for several months now and we have made very good progress towards my goals. She is very professional and committed, it really feels like team work even though we are only working on my goals. Her approach is also full of empathy, which helped us create trust early on. I can certainly recommend working with Hilary to everyone who is interested in setting up and achieving their goals or someone who needs help in transition or change!”

  • KM, Church Leader

    Experiencing coaching with someone who understands ministry and is living a similar life to mine was really important. I felt comfortable sharing things with Hilary that I might not have shared with a different coach.“

  • Lily, Business Owner

    Coaching with Hilary has definitely been one of the best decisions I made for this season of my life. It is not just self-care, I will say it is beyond that. My life and my work wasn't in a bad place when I started coaching. I wanted to give this a try because I hoped to grow in the blind spots of my life, and the areas that could be more healthier and better. I want to become a better parent. I want what I am doing to go to the next level with life coaching with Hilary. Knowing that Hilary has a wide range of life experience, as a client, I felt very safe and understood. She is very knowledgeable.

  • Hilary is not only experienced as a professional coach, but also her understanding of unique individuals and discerning what is the right question to ask and lead our conversations. I feel so motivated after each session of coaching by Hilary. All the practical and immediate application after the sessions during the week have been amazing. I got to work on these and I have seen progress in all the areas I want to grow into and see the change in my life and my business as well. It is not just talk - but a very tangible result!

    I will definitely recommend Hilary to be your life coach. Whatever the stage of life you are at, you need it! Don't wait until life catches you, start before it comes! It is a life changing experience.

  • PK, Working Mom

    When I started having sessions with Hilary, I saw so much progress! She asks very powerful questions and helped move me forward. She has such a peaceful and calm presence that allows you to freely open up without judgement. I have been learning a lot about myself and seen change in my life in such a small amount of time. I look forward to continuing our time together and to see more!”

  • JD, Mother

    “I’ve been to several therapists this past year. But when I started having sessions with Hilary, I saw so much more progress! She asks very powerful questions and helped move me forward. She has such a peaceful and calm presence that allows you to freely open up without judgement. I have been learning a lot about myself and seen change in my life in such a small amount of time! I look forward to continuing our time together and to see more!”

  • DC, Nurse

    There really aren’t enough words to express the depths of gratitude I feel for the impact you’ve had on me. Thank you for all you have poured into us!

  • JR, Ministry Leader

    What a gift and treasure you have been and are. Thank you for challenging, championing and encouraging me. You really listened and have wisdom beyond your years and it’s so evident in the gifts you bring because of how impactful they are.

Are you ready for lasting change?

We are all on a journey and coaching isn’t for the faint of heart. It takes honesty, grit, commitment and vulnerability to move into the life we want. That’s why having someone safe to help you navigate this process is so impactful and important.

I am here to cheer you on and help guide you in discovery as you experience a beautiful, flourishing and more connected life. If you are ready to say yes to that change, book an intro coaching session today.